If someone said, "The check is in the mail," it was actually in the mail. And when a couple promised before God, friends, and family, "Until death do us part…" it truly meant "until death do us part."
Words and promises meant something back then. And you were taught at an early age how important it was to be a man of your word. There was a social stigma to going back on your word… to not meeting a deadline… to not sticking to a commitment.
But then, maybe four decades ago… the philosophy shifted.
We started giving people a pass if they came close to their promise. "I’ll deliver it on Friday was taken to mean Friday or Saturday were okay.
Society gave everyone an "out." You could make a promise but be excused from your commitment so long as you gave it your best shot.
A man's word was no longer his bond. It was his best quote. And as long as he came close to fulfilling it, it wasn't a problem. Society said, "We really didn't expect you to deliver it by Tuesday. But as long as you get it to us by the weekend, there's no problem."
Divorce? "Until death do us part" became “until I realize I would be happier without you.” This idea was even promoted by Dear Abby, the advice columnist.
Then, maybe 20 years ago or so, society eliminated all obligations… as long as we heard what we wanted to hear. It didn't matter if we knew the person was lying to our face.
"I did not have sex with that woman, Ms. Lewinski."
"No, I have never knowingly taken steroids."
"The United States is committed to a strong dollar policy."
We knew we were being lied to, but it didn't matter. It didn't really affect any of us anyway. So what was the harm?
Now we've shifted to the final stage. Let's call it the "realization" philosophy…
In this stage, everyone knows the promises made are baloney. Everyone knows they're being lied to. Everyone knows they're standing on the edge of the abyss. And everyone knows there will be serious consequences. But… nobody knows yet what they're supposed to do.
Look across the Atlantic and see the Greek citizens protesting. They were promised retirement at the age of 50 with a full pension paying 100% of their salary.
The realization is… that isn't going to happen.
Look at the Italian farmer who worked his land for decades and was promised top dollar for the crops he produced. That's not going to happen either.
Look at the firefighters in Vacaville, California. The city and the state are virtually bankrupt. So any promises made for pensions, medical care, and housing supplements are all but null and void.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but this is the state of our nation. Promises made will not be kept. They can’t be. There's no money to pay for them all.
A man's word was no longer his bond. It was his best quote. And as long as he came close to fulfilling it, it wasn't a problem. Society said, "We really didn't expect you to deliver it by Tuesday. But as long as you get it to us by the weekend, there's no problem."
Divorce? "Until death do us part" became “until I realize I would be happier without you.” This idea was even promoted by Dear Abby, the advice columnist.
Then, maybe 20 years ago or so, society eliminated all obligations… as long as we heard what we wanted to hear. It didn't matter if we knew the person was lying to our face.
"I did not have sex with that woman, Ms. Lewinski."
"No, I have never knowingly taken steroids."
"The United States is committed to a strong dollar policy."
We knew we were being lied to, but it didn't matter. It didn't really affect any of us anyway. So what was the harm?
Now we've shifted to the final stage. Let's call it the "realization" philosophy…
In this stage, everyone knows the promises made are baloney. Everyone knows they're being lied to. Everyone knows they're standing on the edge of the abyss. And everyone knows there will be serious consequences. But… nobody knows yet what they're supposed to do.
Look across the Atlantic and see the Greek citizens protesting. They were promised retirement at the age of 50 with a full pension paying 100% of their salary.
The realization is… that isn't going to happen.
Look at the Italian farmer who worked his land for decades and was promised top dollar for the crops he produced. That's not going to happen either.
Look at the firefighters in Vacaville, California. The city and the state are virtually bankrupt. So any promises made for pensions, medical care, and housing supplements are all but null and void.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but this is the state of our nation. Promises made will not be kept. They can’t be. There's no money to pay for them all.
How many other things most people didn't think would ever happen in America have happened recently? What about the collapse of our investment banks, the bankruptcy of General Motors, the liquidation of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, the failure of AIG, hundreds of banks being seized, millions of homes in foreclosure, or real unemployment rates close to 20%? We could go on…
Wake up America! It not only can happen to us, it is going to! We’ve been lied to and promises are not going to be kept.
Wake up America! It not only can happen to us, it is going to! We’ve been lied to and promises are not going to be kept.
The question is, what are we going to do about it?